Red Wedding Gown

--> How not to be a good girl It has occurred to me that I have spent my life being a good girl and in fact I was a bad one. Cause I did not like traditions, I did not like so much the conservative environment I lived in. It always bothered me how men were more privileged than women and how men were called nothing when women were called whores. It was normal for men to drink and smoke but for women not. A good girl would not drink, yet would not drink even coffee. A good woman would build the house, make the house, without a woman a man was not able to do his own chores. How to be a good girl was of utmost importance. It was given so much importance that even women would mock the bad girls. Girls had to get married before they opened their eyes. A girl should not have studied too much… a woman’s place is near her children right? Then well of course I will not tell you what people thought about premarital relations so on and so forth. The list of being a good g

--> We are all temporary, not only in our jobs, marriages, lovers, friendships but also on this world. For sure the duration of temporariness changes. I can hear that you are saying that you are not temporary that you will leave behind things that are so extraordinary that their effects will last forever, which is for sure very likely. But it is not enough to prove that we are eternal. More in the jobs, thanks to mobilities, we have become more and more temporary. The companies are offering internships, it is almost a privilege to work for them for free for three months and then we can add it to our CV. Then the postdoc positions are temporary that last from 4 months to 4 years, there are ones that last even more, but the places of postdoc and research are temporary. Our scholarships, salaries, everything is temporary. If you have money you can invest in private stuff: private pension, private health insurance, cause what is permanent in that case might not be goo