Red Wedding Gown

What women can do and what women cannot do Recently I have seen a youtube video that teaches women how to behave in society for a better and secure social status. It made me think how many restrictions we face still in our day even in the modern times. It is a pity that the gains of the 60s and 70s are a little bit lost. This is weird also that some rules regarding being polite and nice are confused with other things, such as being a highly appreciated woman in society defined by the rules of that society so on and so forth. What makes a woman more appealing? They talk about that. They talk about what princesses can do and what they cannot do. Restrictions in religion, in a small town: the girls should not jump According to our high school teacher women were not supposed to jump and I asked him why and he could not answer. The reason is that their boobs jump as well. Such a disgusting mentality, because of our physical traits men decide that they want to control

--> How not to be a good girl It has occurred to me that I have spent my life being a good girl and in fact I was a bad one. Cause I did not like traditions, I did not like so much the conservative environment I lived in. It always bothered me how men were more privileged than women and how men were called nothing when women were called whores. It was normal for men to drink and smoke but for women not. A good girl would not drink, yet would not drink even coffee. A good woman would build the house, make the house, without a woman a man was not able to do his own chores. How to be a good girl was of utmost importance. It was given so much importance that even women would mock the bad girls. Girls had to get married before they opened their eyes. A girl should not have studied too much… a woman’s place is near her children right? Then well of course I will not tell you what people thought about premarital relations so on and so forth. The list of being a good g

Uzun bir süredir yazmıyorum, yazma yeteneğimi yitirdim ve tembelleştim desem yeridir. Bir de son zamanlarda bir sürü edebiyat dergisi aldım ama okumaya yetişemiyorum. Çok çalıştığımdan falan değil tabii ki. Ne çok çalışması, hep erteliyorum yapmam gereken entelektüel işleri. Belki de bir süre aklımız dumura uğradı, terör saldırıları, anti-demokratik ve adaletsiz yaşam, günlük hayatta kadınlara şort giyiyor diye dayak atarak kurtulan adamların tavırlarına şaşakalmak gibi unsurlar nedeniyle, şaşırdık kaldık, hem anlama yetimizi hem de analiz etme yetimizi yitirdik...